I'm a sucker for awards shows, but the other night, to protect my blood pressure, I should have turned off The Peoples Choice Awards. I was enraged from start to finish with a sense that after decades of feminism, we're not getting anywhere. But then, as we saw on the show, it's hard to get anywhere when you're perched on long prongs that threaten to pitch you forward with every step.
So what pissed me off so much about The Peoples Choice Awards? The women were under-fed and over-dressed (except for Ellen, thank gawd for Ellen) in difficult-to-wear gowns with heels so high they prevented the women from walking.
Kate Walsh could not walk down the ramp to the microphone without desperately hanging on with both hands to a railing. She admitted it when she finally arrived at her mic. Mariah Carey's dress and shoes were so crippling that her partner Nick Cannon had to practically carry her up on the stage. She apologized.
And the men? Some were in suits, mostly without ties, and many, like Johnny Depp, were in jeans or other casual wear. The men were comfortably dressed down for hanging out; the women were painted and pinched and wobbling and tottering. And it was quite universal. I didn't see a single woman (other than that quick shot of Ellen backstage) who wasn't lurching on impossibly high heels. And I didn't see a single man who was.
Remember when women could dress in either pants or dresses for these events? Remember when "combat boots" were "in" whether with chiffon or denim? Remember when a range of possible styles were on display? No more. Either skinny down and femme up to an immobilizing degree or look for work elsewhere.
I could tie the lack of progress in women's lives to so many things: from our various ongoing wars (always bad for women)
to the continuing
economic disaster to the bargaining away of women's health and choice
in the name of legislative "compromise."
When we can't even run away from danger, our clothes have become an obstacle. Such clothing cannot be considered a style "choice" when it breaks down so utterly strictly along gender lines. I'll buy that explanation when I see some women in suits and sneakers and some men in stilettos and ruffles at an awards show.
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